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Genesis 23: The Story of a Soulmate

Here is the story of a soulmate, Sarah, who went through all the high and low points in the life of Abraham, her spouse. Imagine the anxiety, fear, doubt, and anger Sarah must have had in wandering around in the wilderness with Abraham’s visions and experiences of God. Any person, for that reason, will think twice before embarking on a journey without a defined destination or clarity of where they are going.

Now, of course, we know the ancient people were nomadic in nature and so they are attuned to such a lifestyle. We might say, it must not have been that hard as far as the journey is concerned but when it came to doing things as God commanded him to do; it must not have been easy. Then when it came to sacrificing the only child she must have been just crazy, I would think. If I put that into words it will be something like this. “Let us fold the tent man, you are nuts.” Instead, she trusted him.

If you remember, Sarah offered her maid to Abraham and he had another son, Ishmael. There is all the reason for her not to go along with Abraham’s ideas but in the end, she follows him wherever he goes. She supports him in all the escapades of life and becomes the helper God intended her to be. She was not always quiet but in the end Sarah supported Abraham in all things, even letting go of her only son, Isaac.

Nothing comes free, Abraham knew this fully well. He remembered all the sacrifices Sarah made for him and for the family. That’s why in this chapter we see Abraham is not falling for the insincere and quick answer of the Hittite, Ephron. Abraham politely acknowledged Ephron’s offer, but created a prudent boundary by paying for the land he wanted. He also establishes a deep awareness that the place he is buying is a sacred place, for that is where Sarah, his soul-mate, is going to be buried.

For the sake of his soul-mate he spares nothing. He is willing to pay whatever it takes to respect, love, and honor the spouse who journeyed with him. In scripture you will find that Sarah is the only woman whose age, death, and burial are mentioned in such detail. She is not only the mother of the Jewish people, but also of people whose faith is challenged daily by those who are close to them. Regardless of religious affiliation, Sarah represents what it takes to give a person grace, to have courage, to be understanding, and how to support a spouse.

Solution #23: Practicing faith is not easy but if we are attuned to God it will always be present to us through the people we love most us. Those that are near to us will show us the way forward even when we are not sure. When there is mutual trust between spouses even the hardest of choices become a little easier. A reciprocal love is the only way to respond to such trust. Nothing should be spared when it comes to showing that kind of commitment and love. Abraham proves he is the man for Sarah and he will do whatever it takes to prove it. When it came to showing his love of his spouse, and her loss, he did not shy away from showing his emotions. The great patriarch becomes greater when he cries his heart out.

Genesis 22: Keys to Unlock Faith!

The story of Abraham and Isaac always puzzled me. As I see it, God is testing Abraham and asking him to do something anyone in their right mind won’t do. I have a hard time understanding why God, the father, the loving and ever-living being, would put Abraham through such a test? 

It took years for me to understand a little about this story. I did not understand the depth of a father’s love until I had my own children. At every turn of life, I think of them and worry about them. I look for signs that might lead my children to the right or to the left. I pray for their safety, security, and happiness. I long for them to be settled and have a life that is full and beautiful. 

It’s only in this context I can think of Abraham and Isaac. Every time this little boy called daddy, Abraham’s heart must have leaped for joy. Because he is not simply a child among the several other Abraham had. He was the only one and Abraham was going to spare nothing to keep him safe. 

Abraham knew God wouldn’t put him through what was asked. Nevertheless, he was terrified of the thought of what all this means. Everything about God that he had built over the years is now called to question. It is God who blessed him with a child and foretold all that is awaiting this child and the future of Israel. When we read this story, it is heart-wrenching to say the least, because the one who was supposed to protect him and his child is now the one asking for his life. 

One thing I have learned through it all is this. When God puts us through rough days like Abraham had to go through, it is never without a plan to take us out of them. No matter how hard and crazy our experiences might be, in the end, there will always be a contingency plan for God. To trust God to that point is hard because we are all limited by the knowledge of our future. I do this every day when it comes to my children. They do not see the future as much as I see and I am worried, scared and excited for them even when they nothing of it. I have a contingency plan every time they are out of my sight. 

Godly fear, in other words, the constant awarenesses that God has your back even when it is all dark around you, is key to unlock faith. Abraham grew into that faith eventually. It was not quick or easy, but constant building up of a relationship. When he, Abraham, could have been killed at the court of Abimelech, God came to his rescue. In the wilderness, in his loneliness, in his fear and hopelessness, God was present. Abraham came to trust God to do what is best for him in the end. A trust that is a complete surrender to God is hard to come by. Remembering God’s hand in every step of his life helped him get there and served him well. Whether it is in the wilderness or on the mountain, Abraham believed in what was impossible. Because God made the impossible possible in every moment of his life. 

Solution #22: The story of Abraham is the story of complete surrender, a story of growing into that surrender, a moment of letting go of the control of life into the hands of God. When all is done, God gave back all that was surrendered. This, in fact, is the gist of the whole Bible in different stories, anecdotes, and examples. Letting God into life’s moments, as Abraham did, might bring us peace and prosperity just as we see in two great men, Isaac and Abraham. 

 

Genesis 21: Delayed Blessings

Now in here, we are back to some joyful times. In Genesis 21 we see the birth of Isaac, Sarah’s joy. (1-8) But then there is the rivalry of Isaac and Ishmael. (9-13) This leads to the ejection of Hagar and Ishmael, and they are comforted by an angel in the wilderness. (14-21). We read further Abimelech’s covenant with Abraham. (22-34). 

In Romans 8:19 we read that the “whole creation waits with eager longing.” We live in an instant gratification society. No matter young or old, everyone wants and have information at their fingertips. The word Google was the name of a company some years ago, but now it is a verb we all use. Google it! we say. Because the answer is right at your fingertip. 

Our patience level these days for that simple reason is much lower than of our ancestors. We can not wait for things any longer. The deep longing we are talking about in the first paragraph is not the trait of modern society. If you do not answer your text or email right away, then there are hard feelings, fear of rejection, fight and the rest of the drama that follows. 

With this backdrop of the modern world, let us look at Genesis 21 that takes us to the reality of how God works things out. Coping with God’s ways of doing things is just the opposite of the ways of the modern world. Everything, if it is left to God, will be a delayed blessing. Nothing is fast or furious for God. This is the message of this chapter. Sarah had to wait for a long time even after a child was promised to get the child. She waited until she got pretty old to conceive. She had to wonder if God was in the story at all. But she waited through her doubts. 

Look at Abraham. He was not a spring chicken when his firstborn came about. He was 100 years old. If any of us can actually think straight at 100, I would call it a blessing beyond my imagination. I have met two people who made it to 101 and seemed like they carried some sense in them to that age. As for me, forget it, that I won’t have much sense left by then. So, it was a delayed blessing for Abraham just as much as it was for Sarah. It was a blessing in when it came in God’s own timing. 

See how Hagar and Ishmael were treated. They were thrown out of their security and into the wilderness. But God was waiting for them in the wilderness. For Hagar to know God and experience God’s care, she needed to reach the wilderness. In the wilderness, Hagar had to move away from her own son, and limited vision, to see God’s hand at work with her child. God opens the spring of water and life for them once Hagar gave everything into the hands of God. God’s blessings may be delayed and nerve-wracking, but it always comes when needed. 

Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon; this man was righteous and devout, looking forward to the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit rested on him. (Luke 2: 25) Simeon waited for a long time for the right time so that he could see Jesus brought into the temple. We see Jesus doing the same when he waits for the right time to raise Lazarus from the dead. He didn’t rush to raise him, instead waited for God’s time.  Jesus asks His disciples to do the same. “Wait for the helper,” Jesus says, “I will send you the Holy Spirit.” Delayed blessings are real and I believe that’s how God does things. He rushes not! 

So, in short, Genesis 21 speaks volumes about waiting for the delayed blessings. Delayed blessings of God in our lives is proof that God is with us. If you doubted whether God was ever with you in anything you are going through, remember Abraham, Sarah, Hagar, Isaac, Ishmael, the disciples, Martha, Mary and Lazarus, and the list goes on and on. You are on the right track when things are not right in front of you when you want it. God works with infinite things and we work with finite things. It is in my DNA to die, therefore a limited vision and it is in God’s DNA to live and therefore beyond the small things. Therefore, delayed blessings are God’s way of guarding your back!

Genesis 20: Sojourners in a foreign land

Genesis 20 gives us a three-part story. It tells us about the journey of Abraham and his stay at Gerar, where Sarah is taken by the king, Abimelech. (1-8) When Abimelech found out the truth of Abraham and Sarah’s relationship, he rebukes Abraham for what he did to him and to his nation. Abimelech restores Sarah to Abraham and then blesses him with a place to settle. (14-18)

The Beautiful Human Condition

Fear overtakes all people at some point in their life, no matter who they are. We, humans, are flawed in one way or another but it is in this flawed nature that God has taken refuge. God found the human condition worth inhabiting. That is amazing to me! Thus the incarnation. 

The Backstory Of God’s Chosen

When Abraham and Sarah landed in Egypt looking for a place to settle, they were greeted by the men of Pharaoh. In those days, the king could take anyone as his slave, his spouse, his concubine or whatever else the king wanted. If someone stood against such a wish, they were killed and removed. Therefore, the fear Abraham had was real and his fear lead him to do what he did. He lied. He flat out lied about his relationship with Sarah to keep himself safe. He lied to Pharaoh telling him that Sarah was his sister. 

Sarah was beautiful and the king was smitten by it.  He didn’t have to kill the man who accompanied Sarah if he was only her brother and not her husband. In the mind of the king, everything was in order and there was no need for violence because she was available.

The Power Of Stepping Back

Abimelech finds out the truth about Abraham and Sarah and now he was terrified. He knew he stepped on Godly toes here. It was time to pull back and set the record straight. He chickened out of his whole plan simply because his adversary was greater and better than himself. So he withdraws and returns Sarah to Abraham, her husband. 

The Perverse State Of Mind

See how fear plays out in different ways? Abraham’s fear led him to lie. The fear Sarah had, led her to the bedchamber. The fear of God’s punishment forced Abimelech to change his mind. Human imperfection in its fullness is played out within this whole story. As Job would say, “Though I am innocent, my own mouth would condemn me; though I am blameless, he would prove me perverse.” Job 9:20. 

I had to look up the definition of the word “perverse” and found this. Perverse means “showing a deliberate and obstinate desire to behave in a way that is unreasonable or unacceptable.” I did not need any more to explain the desire of Pharaoh or Abraham or Sarah or me or you. The world is in a state of perverseness much of the time. We are led by our human imperfection to avoid the consequences of our actions and desires. 

Overcome Perverseness

I felt sorry for Abimelech, Sarah, and Abraham. The story in Genesis 20 told me of my own need to act unreasonably out of fear. I am sure if I lived in those days and had a king, I might do the same to protect my wife and me. But then I don’t live in such times. I hope not. But I can see how fear can lead us to such behaviors in difficult times. Not to claim the person you love and stand up for them, regardless of what happens, is a problem in the world we live in today. Not claiming and respecting the other as God’s child, is an ongoing problem. 

The Divine Law: Respect

Solution # 20: God challenges Abimelech to be disrespectful and deal with the consequences. But Abimelech doesn’t take the bate. Rather, he complies with divine law, namely to respect. Abraham and Sarah in the foreign land by protecting them and giving them a place of their own.  God was with the stranger and his beautiful wife. Even a king can learn quickly so he changed his ways when he knew God was with them all, not just the stranger but with the king himself. God protected him from sinning against his own people just as much as God protected the stranger in the land. We all need to invite God into the midst of our confusion and God will protect us all and even open the doors for better solutions in our lives. We are all sojourners in a foreign land. 

Genesis 19: Lead us from blindness to light!

There are two major stories contained in this chapter which we have heard many times over. First there is the story of The Destruction of Sodom and The Deliverance of Lot. (1-29) and secondly, The Sin and Disgrace of Lot. (30-38)

This chapter of Genesis is more known in the world for two words – Sodom and Gomorrah. The destruction of these two cities has historically been attributed to the lifestyle of the people of these locations. I do not want to disagree with the findings of other writers with regards to lifestyle but in my view, the lifestyle we are talking about here is not about homosexuality among the people of Sodom and Gomorrah as many preachers have said but rather it is about the inner blindness to see other people with dignity and respect. 

Look at the different aspects of the story. See how the people of Sodom treated Lot, the Angels, and the daughters of Lot. Everything of this chapter speaks volumes of one’s attitude towards people around them. 

For the people of Sodom, Lot was nothing but a foreigner without rights. He was belittled for being a man without the right to welcome guests into his own home or even to be a man with dignity. They questioned his moral judgment. They disregarded his pleas. They failed to believe his story and his request not to harm his own guests. 

The people of the town were blind to the fact that these three men they didn’t know, the angels, were there for their pleasure. They made a mistake in assuming who the strangers were when they actually had no clue about the identity of their guests. They were blinded by their own self-grandeur. The people Sodom failed to welcome God’s angels. 

We find the blindness of Lot’s wife to see the hand of God in everything that happened to them. Her curiosity got the better of her. Her fear got the better of her. Her need to control the outcome got her in trouble. She became a pillar of salt that had lost its saltiness. She became an immovable pillar in the middle of destruction and uncertainty. 

The story doesn’t end there. The daughters of Lot continue the path of the blindness of their parents. When Lot was given a chance to choose, if you remember from the past, he chose for his own betterment and lost everything. When his wife was given a choice, she chose a path to her own destruction. When the daughters had a choice to make, they were blinded by their fear and lost respect for their father.

When we are blinded by our limited vision of life, we make mistakes too. When we are afraid, we follow the wrong path. We are caught in the middle of destruction and the future. We are blinded by our prejudices, our fears, and our self-grandeur. We can become like the people of Sodom and Gomorrah, not because of sexual orientation, but pure self-righteousness and total spiritual blindness. We may become the same people who were destroyed by fire because we fail to respect the dignity of people we may or may not even know. Even though we are presented with daily invitations to respect the dignity of every human being, we are often blinded by our fear. 

Solution #19: When one group of people attacks another, that nation falls into a place of spiritual blindness. When a person destroys another for any reason, a seed of self-destruction is planted in him or her. Spiritual blindness leads the people of this chapter to vile acts. It is not sexual acts that destroy another but the lack of respect for human dignity that leads to vile acts of any kind, sexual or asexual. It will do well for us to remember that where there is love, there is kindness, compassion, self-control, forgiveness, and mercy.

Genesis 18: Why Count The Blessings In The Evenings!

In Genesis 18 we find several interesting stories, starting with the appearance of the Lord to Abraham. This is followed by the unbelief that is reproved by the Lord. God reveals what is awaiting in the future for Sodom and Gomorrah and how Abraham will plead for the people of Sodom. 

In my opinion, most people are hard-working. Everyday cares and worries of life keep us all awake at night but in the end, everyone falls asleep through it all. Abraham and Sara had their share of anxieties and worries of life, but in those restless nights, before they fell asleep, they counted the stars and trusted that, somehow, God will make it right for them. God had promised them uncountable blessings in the future. 

Immersed in these thoughts, Abraham waited for God to act. Everything that happened in his life, he believed, had the hand of God behind it. Anything that happened that was out of the ordinary, since he paid attention to the extraordinary experiences and encounters, made him open to God’s intervention in life. He was not so calloused to life that he ignored the unexplainable experiences. He was ready to meet God whenever and wherever God appeared.

So when these three men in the story of Genesis 18 showed up at the door, Abraham didn’t wait for a second to greet them, welcome them, offer them a home, give them food or whatever. He was prepared for an encounter with God. God met him at his front door and not anywhere else.

Whatever happened after that did not matter. He did not lose focus on God, His kindness and how He kept His word. Even when he heard the unthinkable, Abraham believed it like a child. Sara was much more of the adult in the story, never taking anything at face value and being disappointed for the rest of her life for trusting what these men said. She knew she was old and could not have a son at her age. She chuckled and she doubted the possibility, just like you and me. 

But the lesson here is much more than the doubt of Sara or the destruction of Sodom. It is about the openness of Abraham to believe in the impossible. He had to prepare himself for the impossible without knowing what it would be. We now know that greater things were in the future for Abraham. He was prepared beforehand because he was prepared for the impossible in the hands of God. He maintained a childlike and fearless faith. 

Yes, some of us may want to focus on the Sodom story. If we are focusing on the Sodom story, then let it be on the story of the persistence of Abraham to find good even when God doesn’t seem to find good. He was willing to ask God to walk him through the possibility of not having a good person in town. He bargains for justice. He calls on God for mercy. He wants to find goodness even when it was not possible. He becomes a friend of God by challenging God to show him the reason for the destruction of a people. He wanted to see through the eyes of God and see God through the eyes of the people. This is how Abraham becomes a friend of God. God finds the best in the worst situations in life and wants us to see it too, so that we can see the impossible things through the eyes of God. 

Solution #18

Even when everyday life seems impossible, count the blessings in the evenings. Even when what is ahead is unthinkable, trust in the potential God has in them. Even when faced with people and situations that demands utter fear, do what is right and just. When prophet Micah says, “do justice, show mercy and walk humbly before God”, he is giving us a simple way to practice faith, not just saying to have faith. Lift your head and see that God is at your front door. Invite God in, dine with God, believe in God and become a friend of God by seeing the possibility of goodness in the midst of the impossible situations or people. 

Genesis 17: The Two Way Street Of Faith!

In the last chapter we learned, Abram and Sarai tried to help God to fulfill His promise to them and that’s why we have Ishmael in the story. We talked about this last week as to how Sarai got a little impatient and helped Abram to help God. Well, it eventually only caused a problem between Sarai and Abram. Jealousy, fear, anger and all kinds of other emotions played out in Hagar running away.

This whole drama must have been exhausting and scary for all parties involved, Sarai feeling down, Abram feeling guilty, Hagar feeling rejected and scared. The Poor child, Ishmael, in the midst of it all became homeless.

God understood the fears and worries of all involved. Therefore God does what was the right thing to do with Hagar, Abram, and Sarai. He makes a covenant with Abram and not just Abram, as we listen more we see him making this covenant between God and Abram and then his children and children’s children, to generations to come. God promises justice for generations to come and forever.

God’s Covenant with Abram was not without anything in return from Abram. What was required of Abram was his obedience. Abram’s obedience was important in the story and required. But in my opinion, all God wanted was the love from his children including Abram. Obedience becomes easier when it is love that is expressed in obedience.

God in a way maybe a little needy. I know many people don’t like needy people. But then that’s what we all are. We are all needy for various reasons, but more when it comes to love. It proves the fact that we are, for sure, children of God who is needy and wants our love. For God will and have gone to great length to break the natural law to get Sarai pregnant. God, of course, can do whatever but He went to great length to make sure his promise and covenant with Abram are kept. All that he asks in return is that Abram and his children and children’s children love him and give God the first place.

I believe many times God loses patience with people in the Old Testament when they don’t love him and give him the first place. He had already told them that plain and clear, He wants to be the only God they should love, worship and live for. It is not that God did not make it clear. He did. But then being me, I said to myself, what kind of insecure God is that? But then senes came to me. I think the whole world runs on that fuel of wanting to be loved.

According to Karl Barth, a theologian “God defined: ‘The One Who Loves.” So, if we want to be like God, there is only one choice, become the one who loves like God. The fallen angels did not have that grace. They fell from grace because it was the power that they were seeking. Well, I am sure love has this reciprocal requirement that to experience real love you have to give love, love in return. If you don’t give love, you won’t experience love. That’s when all the problems begin. Love is never a one-way street. It goes both ways and that’s all that the Lord is asking to Abram and Sarai. It is not an abstract request God makes here. He names people to be loved. God The Almighty, Abraham, Sarah, Isaac, Ishmael, Hagar. It is particular, personal and direct.

So this chapter is much more than the story of Abram and Sarai and the covenant. It is setting in stone how that covenant is kept namely obedience in love for God. Stories after stories say that God did keep his promises.

Solution #17

God demands love because God gives love. Love is only experiential when we give it and not simply take it. Many in the world take love but forget to give it. The fabric of faith and family fails when love is not returned but only taken.

Genesis 16: Faith Is Born In Human Chaos!

For all my life I have heard that Abram is the father of faith. I know that’s because of what he did when he was asked to sacrifice his only son, Isaac. It is a great example of trust in God. I have said earlier that I don’t have that kind of faith. I wish I did.

However, when I reflected further, I wondered what happened to Abram and Sarai? God had promised them that He will multiply them and make them a great nation. His descendants will be like the stars in the sky. As smart and intelligent people, to know Sarai in her old age could get pregnant, was hard to believe. But then, why shouldn’t they trust God?

I believe they trusted God to do his part and keep His promise. As the days passed by, they must have been totally confused and afraid. As much as they wanted to trust God to keep the promise, they were not getting any younger to wait forever. Life was passing by and their strength to deal with life situations was diminishing.

I can only imagine the fear, sadness, humiliation and all the rest of the feelings Sarai must have gone through when she offered her servant girl to her husband. What was that for? Was it to help God to fulfill the promise? It was fear that things may not happen if they waited too long. Then there is the fear that they may not be able to conceive a child in their old age. All kinds of stressful moments crept in and made life total chaos, I am sure.

I always wondered if trusting in God is easy? I believe it might take us through a period of chaos especially if we try to help God? Can our idea of God’s plan lead us to do things that are crazy sometimes? Can God actually do things as God has promised, at least as we believe God has promised us in our prayer, without our help?

When I reflected more on these things I found the faith of Sarai and Abram was short just as much as ours. Genuine faith in God is prone to fail when we go through the chaos. Living in faith is living in chaos. Even when everything else seems to go against whatever we believe we can develop our trust in God. Chaos in life is ripe enough to give birth to the true faith.  

Abram and Sarai were going through the temptation to help God figure things out, without waiting patiently for God to do things. God’s timing sometimes is hard to understand and sometimes completely not in sync with the human clock. Our clock is limited because we only have a few years to live and we measure everything accordingly, but God’s clock infinite. There is not a sure way of explaining what God has in mind and the timing of it. Trusting God is not easy for anyone just as it was not the case for the father and mother of faith, Abram and Sarai.

But God can still act and God can still come through. The human chaos in this stressful situation was not the end of it all for God’s friend. It was made into a new beginning again.

Solution #16

Faith cannot be packaged easily in a neat little box. It lives through the chaos of life and many times faith is emboldened because of chaos. We are all better for the chaos of life because it helps us to live humbly. It makes us people who are real and down to earth. Of course, that goes only for those who are willing to accept that they have chaos in their lives. It is comforting to know the father and the mother of faith, Abram and Sarai, had enough chaos in their lives to strengthen their resolve to listen to God regardless of them.

Genesis 15: Two Sides Of A Coin

When we go deeper into the study of this scripture today, we find how God watches over the feelings, the emotions, the experiences and the fears of His chosen people. As you know Abram just came out of a war and so we find him exhausted from it. Yes, he did not fall for the temptation to keep the plunder, the land, the women or anything else. After fighting with a bigger enemy than his own, I am sure Abram is now anxious, because you never know who is going to come after you when you settle, calm down or when you let your guards down.

In Genesis 14 we saw Abram defeated the king Melchizedek. Abram was generous and kind and left the king alive and well. But that does not mean he was not afraid of the future or the things that he does not know about in the future.

When he fell into a deep sleep, Abram had a vision. But what he heard in the vision was even more powerful. He was told not to be afraid of what lies ahead. He was asked to let go of his fears, but trust God to lead him. Even though things are not as clear as he wants, God assures him, that God will walk with him all the way. He will live long and have a happy ending that is peaceful.

The whole story here reveals the naked thoughts of Abram on one side and the plan God has for us in such moments on the other. Abram knew he does not have a child to inherit whatever it is that he has and God gives him. He knew he is old. He also knew his wife was old enough not to bear a child for him. All of these fears in Abram was known to God as well.

Sometimes I wonder if the Lord really understands what I am going through. I don’t dare speak my fears out, but I am sure, God does read my hearts and thoughts. Even when I know God knows things, I am not able to quieten my heart from fear. I have thought sometimes that I can control the outcome if I knew what is to happen. I am only fooling myself if I believe I can control the future because the future and everything that surrounds my life is uncertain and beyond my control.

I want to remember, again and again, God does not and will not leave me alone when I am willing to walk the path he has shown me even when it is through the wilderness. When Abram gave up the plunder and saved the lives of others, God was watching the actions of Abram. His future was secured by God who watched with love the kindness of Abram. Abram was blessed with more than he needed by blessing him with children and family that will spread out to all corners of the earth.

In this story, I invite your focus on the stumbling man in Abram. He was afraid, lost, scared, anxious and worried about the future because of the past, present and all that was unknown to him in the future. God picks him up from those fears and rather than challenging and judging him, embraces him with promises beyond his imagination. This is the way of God. God is not a God of vengeance as many might think, but a God who reads the hearts, minds, and thoughts of mankind and helps them calm down in life if we are willing to listen.

Solution #15

Pure and sincere honesty in the eyes of God is always pleasing to God even when we are afraid, lost or angry. We all have a chance to be heard, loved and cared for in the middle of our fears. God is not leaving us alone, just like he did not when Abram was not sure what the future holds. Abram, through the grace of God, knew life was only beginning after an exhausting war. He was ready to reject his fears and accept God’s help when the Lord asked him to trust him.

Genesis 13: Shrinking and Expanding Grace!

Life is Unique

While man has reasons for the things he does based on relational thinking and justifications, God always has the power to turn man’s actions around and use them to create a unique and perfect plan of his own. The scriptures often reveal how God uses the frailties of man to achieve his greater glory.

Abram returns from Egypt with all the wealth and security he would ever need. He and his people continue to grow in riches. Along with the unexpected and unimaginable wealth, the strife it created grew also. There came the very human need to protect what they had. Protecting hard earned money can cause relationship issues and problems among siblings. The families of Abram and his brother, Lot, were not spared this strife.

The blessing in a sacrifice

Like sensible people, Abram and Lot must come together to find a solution to their problem. Lot saw the fertile land in front of him and realized the great potential it held. Abram, suggested a solution by saying, “If you go left, I’ll go right; if you go right, I’ll go left.”  He compromised by taking what was left by his brother. So, Lot takes what he feels is the better portion and Abram simply takes what Lot leaves behind. In order to have peace between brothers, one must be willing to make the necessary sacrifice.

The two brothers go their separate ways and both prosper. This is where the story gets more interesting because God’s plan never fails.

God never fails.

When we look to Abram’s future, we find that this seemingly insignificant sacrifice that he made by accepting what Lot did not want, becomes what is best for the future of his people. God never fails in his promises. God can and will turn everything into the best for those who are willing to humble themselves and build others up.

Why build up the other

This whole 13th chapter of Genesis is about Abrams willingness to put his brother before himself. It shows that his self-sacrificing nature paid off in the end when God, as always, keeps His promise to His people. Lot got what he wanted but God blessed Abram with much more. The two Transjordanian kingdoms of the progeny of Lot are smaller and more insignificant than the larger and greater future nation of Israel.

Solution #13

When we make sacrifices and do the right thing in life, we sometimes feel like we have been taken advantage of by the other. Sometimes self-sacrifice to build the other might feel senseless and even painful. Loss of wealth and security might also feel like a lot to take in especially when those who have taken advantage of you seem to prosper. One thing I have learned in life through this story and many others, God is a God of justice and not convenience, a God of who knows both the beginnings and the ends. Things will turn around when God is in control of life if only we can live without anxiety. Build up your neighbor, brother, sister, family, friends and in turn, I promise what might look like a lot, will turn into the best. For God knows the progeny of a selfish man only ends up shrinking and the sacrifice of the righteous will always prosper.